Taking time out for joy

Hubby is out tonight on a manly bbq and i have time totally to myself :-)

Kids are in bed, one asleep one still chatting away to himself, and I'm taking time out for joy, "nice sigh of relief"

So i have toy story 3 playing in the background while i surf through blogs that i love, there is so much great stuff out there, I'm also eating cadbury favourites and whipped up a chocolate banana bread which is currently baking and going to be enjoyed with a tall glass of icy milk once it has come out and cooled a little.

Yum, i love the weekends where i get to just simply take time out for these little joys of life.

I must admit i do feel selfish in a way, crazy hey... I feel like i should be doing some housework or spending time with God or something "productive", but at the same time i really just want to do these little things that bring me joy when i get alone times like these with no expectations from anyone.

Any other mamas out there feel guilty to enjoy their free time however they want to when the rare moment occurs that we get it?

God Bless Y'all